19 months!? I'm not at all sure where that last month went, but it probably has something to do with the fact that we're knee-deep in the chaos of moving. I hope it'll all be over soon and I can get back to just watching these boys learn to live life. I much prefer that to negotiating inspection reports and mortgage applications. I really hope we like the new house because I tell you what, I'm not sure I'm EVER moving again.
Anyway, Max Oliver...
See that smile? He wears it most of the time. He's a happy kid and so very independent. He's not the snuggler that Jack is, at all. I am lucky to get a total of 2 minutes of snuggling a day. Jack however, would snuggle with me for 2 hours a day if I wanted. That's good though - it's nice having them want and need different things from us.
He's really trying to talk more. I'm pretty sure you'd have no idea what he was saying if you heard him, but we can make out most of his words. Many of them sound alike so you really have to consider the context. Most of them also sound German with a thick "ich" on the end. I've definitely got a little German blood coursing through my veins, so maybe he just got a hefty dose of it, I don't know. He also signs more, please and thank you. It's pretty cute, I must admit, though I sometimes think he doesn't even try to say them because he knows how cute it is!
I do think he looks more like me than Jack does. Jack definitely favors Kenny and Max favors me a bit more. He got his first freckles this month and I couldn't be more excited. I LOVE FRECKLES! He's got just a couple on his nose. Super cute.
This was the month the boys really started playing with each other. They'll chase each other around the house squealing and play catch or Jack will help Max with his puzzles. Of course, there are times when Jack wants Max to leave him alone and Max doesn't understand, but for the most part, they are still really getting along great.
Max can hold his own, for sure, which is good!
Max is a really good eater, and always has been, but this month he got really adventurous. He wants pretty much anything on my plate. And I always let him try it. This month he had several dishes I thought would be way too spicy for him, but he gobbled them up. He doesn't love everything he tries but he loves to try it all. Jack's exactly the opposite, so I'm reveling in this. Getting Jack to try ANYTHING is a challenge. He also figured out that Jack often gets a treat after dinner and started asking for his own. Jack only gets one if he finishes his dinner - that's the part Max didn't get. So it's often a battle, but he'll understand it soon enough.
He still uses the paci but he's much less dependent on it. In fact, I probably offer it to him more than he asks for it. I still need it sometimes I guess...and I think that will end when he's talking more and grunting less. Or less frustrated that he can't communicate clearly. I get tired of the "eh eh eh" and whining sometimes and will offer it to him for my own sanity. I should probably stop, though the pediatrician said she loved pacis for everyone's mental health, so I don't feel too bad about it! If you ask him for it, he'll take it out of his mouth and give it to you and most of the time, he doesn't even ask for it during the day. I still let him have it at nap and bedtime and he seems to still want it then, but it's definitely fading.
He continues to love school. We have conferences next week and I can't wait to hear how they think he's doing. He definitely acts like he owns the place, just like Jack does, but I love that they have that confidence there and feel so comfortable. I know I've said it a million times, but I'm just so thankful for our daycare situation. I really think it is a perfect fit for us.
The fascination with balls has not let up. Not one bit. He can't really go anywhere without one. He often even sleeps with one. I think we have about 25, not at all exaggerating, in our toy basket and he gets them all out most every day. He throws them and kicks them but also just carries them around.
I think this month was really about independence. He's not wanting help with things and he's realizing how much he can do on his own. He used to always want to sit in my lap and read books and now he wants to just sit in the floor with the books and me nearby but not in my lap. He wants to do anything Jack is doing but without help. It's challenging at times because he's not quite the big boy he thinks he is or wants to be, but he's getting there...faster than I'd like! Love you Max!
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